36 PERFECT Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gifts

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Today on my blog, I am sharing the PERFECT Mrs and Mrs Wedding gift ideas for 2023! I love the whole “Mrs and Mrs” trend with LGBT and lesbian weddings, but gosh darn WOWZERS is it hard to find Mrs and Mrs wedding gifts.

Luckily for you, realizing how tough it was to find these gifts made me DETERMINED to do so! And in this post, I’ve shared all of my research so you can go confidently into wedding season with the most PERFECT Mrs and Mrs gifts!

This post is all about Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gifts.

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 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

Ok, so, real talk — whenever I make a resource for the LGBT community (and our allies), I get a *bit* worried. The reason is because equating gender identity with honorifics (an honorific is a word like Mrs, Mr, Mx, etc) isn’t actuallyyyy how things work.

For example, someone may identify as a bride and use “Mx” and be non-binary lesbian. Someone may be a lesbian and use “Mx,” but not identify as a bride! There’s a whole host of things happening here.

For this reason, I recommend that you check with the couple (or one partner), or someone in a position of Wedding Authority TM, like a Maid of Honor, to make sure you understand if both people plan on using “Mrs,” “bride,” etc. And then select your gift from there!

Not all people who use “Mrs” identify as a “bride,” and not all brides use “Mrs”! Be sure to check with the couple on word choice before snagging the perfect Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift.

Alrighty, let’s get to it!

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Hey there, I’m Brianne Huntsman, AKA “The Hutnswoman”! Thank you for dropping by my blog today. As a queer blogger, I love creating gift guides just like this for LGBTQ+ folks and our allies. If you’re looking for something specific and can’t find it, feel free to DM me on Instagram or send me an email! I love hearing from my readers, as well as helping them!

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#1 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: White Porcelain Heart Sign

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gifts

Next up on my list of the PERFECT Mrs and Mrs wedding gifts is this white porcelain heart sign. I first thought that this was a Christmas ornament (and I do have those on my guide!!), but it’s actually a home decor type sign.

It’s from Lilith Paws on etsy, and measures 4.5 x 4.5 x 0.5cm. There’s 2.54 cm in 1 inch (shoutout to my engineering undergrad degree lol), so this is about 1.75 x 1.75 x .2 in. Those are my “ish measurements”, or there abouts! Not exact, lol.

I think that this would be a PERFECT Mrs and Mrs wedding gift for friends or loved ones who are more minimalist, or if you want to personalize giving a gift of money, but still want something thoughtful and physical the two brides can open! <3

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#2 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs Photo Frame

Y’all, I had a WILD time with this next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift. It was WAY harder than it should be to find a Mrs and Mrs wedding photo frame!

I ended up deciding to include 3 with different aesthetics, so you could more easily snag the one that feels like it would ~vibe~ with your two brides!

  1. Left Mrs and Mrs Picture Frame
  2. Middle Mrs and Mrs Photo Frame
  3. Right Mrs and Mrs Picture Frame

You can snag your Mrs and Mrs wedding gift by clicking on the list above, or on the image of the frame you like! <3

#3 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Personalised Champagne Flutes

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

Ok, y’all, I searched HIGH AND LOW for this Mrs and Mrs wedding gift. These are two champagne glasses that read “Mrs (Iast name) with the wedding date on them.

I thought about how these could be great engagement gifts as well, but it may be too stressful the day of the wedding to try to make sure that THESE champagne flutes are in front of the happy LGBT couple, ya know?! Instead, I think this is a super thoughtful gift the same sex couple can use when they’re celebrating their first anniversary, and in the years to come!!

Buy this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#4 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Wooden Sign with Names

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Ok, technically you could get a Mrs and Mrs lesbian wedding sign from just about any sign maker on etsy. But I wanted to be sure to include a brand like Learn Create Connect who actively supports the LGBTQ+ community by showing us in their marketing.

These two brides are gorgeous, and this sign is perfect for the Home Goods lover or the lady who loves Joanna Gaines!

Buy this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#5 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Our First Christmas Personalised Ornament

I promised you Christmas ornaments, and I will deliver! These Mrs and Mrs ornaments are so cute and thoughtful, and I chose these two because they have different design aesthetics. The left Mrs and Mrs wedding gift is for the couple who loves COLOR and PRIDE, and the right Mrs and Mrs wedding gift is for couples who are more minimalist (if they have a cream couch, I’d go with this ornament!).

#6 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Cutting Board

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How cute is this next Mrs and Mrs gift?! This is perfect for lesbian foodies or same sex couples who love to spend time in the kitchen together!

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#7 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Lesbian Pillow Cases

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How fun is this next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift?! While it doesn’t have the word “Mrs” on it, you can customize these pillowcases with the names of the two brides, adding in “Mrs”!

From the maker: “All pillowcases made with love and are 100% handmade
Each drawing is APPLIED BY HAND with textile paint and brushes what makes drawing very pleasant for the skin (unlike print technique)”

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#8 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs Cute Glass Mugs

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

Ok, as a queer woman myself, I have a LOT of friends who collect mugs. (I don’t think that’s just a #GayThing, but my data is showing some TRENDS, ya know?!)

If you’re looking for a home decor gift or a truly useful wedding gift for your Mrs and Mrs couple, ordering 2 (or even 4 as a set!) of these glass mugs would be a great LGBT wedding gift. I love that this mug has the “Mrs and Mrs” text, as well as the wedding year, along with lovely flowers. This LGBT wedding present would be great for self-proclaimed hipsters, coffee lovers and mug collectors!

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#9 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs Stemless Wine Glasses on Amazon

Next up on my list of Mrs and Mrs wedding gifts, I thought these stemless wineglasses could be fun for the lesbian or same sex couple who loves scrapbooking and this style of font! If your couple has cutesy home decor signs and throw pillows, then I think this wedding present will be a hit!

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#10 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Leather Masculine Coasters

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A lot of the Mrs and Mrs wedding gifts that I could find were more… traditionally feminine, which DEFINITELY is not a fit for all lesbian, same sex or LGBT couples who are excited to be announced as “Mrs and Mrs” on their wedding day!

If your couple is more into “masculine” decor (think Mad Men) or is overall not super into frou frou stuff (no hate, I love it!) then this set of Mrs and Mrs coasters would be perfect! If I wanted to be really extra (which I love), I would maybe gift a set of whisky glasses or a bottle of whisky with this gift — or other beverage, pairing the coasters with a swagalicious gift!

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#11 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Hand Stamped Cake Forks for Two Brides

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This next gift for two brides is so thoughtful — matching stamped cake forks!

From the maker Block and Hammer: “This vintage silverware long handled dessert fork set is hand stamped with the words ‘bride’ and ‘bride’. This would be a wonderful gift for both of the brides to be!”

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#12 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Hand Stamped Cake Fork

Ok, I searched FOREVER to find a “Mrs and Mrs” wedding gift that has THOSE EXACT WORDS stamped on the fork. (I’m dedicated to helping you find the BEST Mrs and Mrs wedding gift, dear reader.)

I was delighted (truly, DELIGHTED) to see that Etsy maker, And Then Again Designs, also offered forks stamped with “Mx,” which is a gender neutral honorific. I knew I needed to include both of these products (I’m reasonably sure you can mix and match) in my guide to Mrs and Mrs wedding gifts.

Shop the Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#13 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs Wood Sign

This next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift from Wood in Out on etsy is so fun, and almost every LGBT couple planning a wedding ends up using these signs! The “Mrs and Mrs” wooden letters can be used as decor, or that maker shared that you can “add straps to them to make chair signs.”

I also LOVE the option for an “Mrs and Mx” sign, ‘Mx’ being a gender neutral honorific.

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#14 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Funny uHaul Wedding Card

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Ok, I need to do a whole other guide to lesbian and LGBT wedding cards, but THIS CARD was so freaking’ hilarious I had to include it. This would be a great card for a couple who loves to make fun of themselves, or enjoys a good ribbing about their, er, quick route to the altar!

This is a peak IFYKYK type of card, so if you don’t really get it, I’d go for another card! Giving this card without knowing the couple SUPER well could lead to some hurt feelings.

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#15 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Personalised Digital Wedding Print

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This next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift has a LEVEL of personalization that I find SUPER impressive. The artist has ROWS AND ROWS of different dress styles, hair, outfits, etc, to use. This wouldn’t be a great Mrs and Mrs gift if one or both of the brides is plus size (the artist doesn’t offer different sizes of people!), but this is such a rad gift otherwise! <3

Buy this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#16 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Wedding Jerseys

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I love this gift for my sporty girly and gays! If both of the brides (or even one!) is SUPER into sports, playing or watching them, then I think this gift would be a HIT!

I love how this Mrs and Mrs gift idea can be customized with last names and the year! This is so cute!

I also appreciate that the maker, No Bull Woman Apparel, has two different fits of the shirt (men’s and women’s). You’re gonna want to snag the measurements or sizes of your two brides to check the size chart before ordering!! <3

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#17 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs T-Shirt

from the brand

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

This next wedding gift for lesbians is perfect for the couple who is ready for the “WIFEY” life! While there were a good number of “wifey” shirts to choose from, I wanted to be sure to list a t-shirt that makes it clear this is an LGBT pride situation (hence the little rectangles of color that add up to be a rainbow)!

I also love how this Mrs and Mrs gift idea can be customized with the wedding date of the happy couple!

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#18 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Keepsake Box

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I love this next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift idea. It’s so sweet and thoughtful AAAAND functional! Getting married means a couple will gather a lot of different keepsakes, from invitations to handkerchiefs to little notes or vows — and it can be hard to figure out where to PUT all of those precious mementos.

Enter Unique Gift Workshop on etsy with this keepsake box!

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#19 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Hers & Hers Hand Towels

Ok, this next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift gets a biiiiit tongue in cheek. We all know that traditional straight or heterosexual weddings do the whole “Mr and Mrs” thing to denote who will use what. These kind of towels are fun because they’re basically identical (the “hers” towels use different color of thread, which is smart!) to reference that trend, while also making folks laugh a little.

There’s no way to tell whose is whose, because both are “Mrs”!

Get it? Ok, maybe I think this is funnier than it is, lol.

  1. Mrs & Mrs Wedding Gift Towels
  2. Hers & Hers Towels

Click on the links or images above to shop! <3

#20 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Sole Mates Personalised Socks

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

Ok, how freaking FUN is this next wedding gift?! This is perfect for the bride (or both brides!) who are known for their fashion sense and/or their love of cozy socks!

From the maker, If The Sock Fitz: “These comfortable and warm socks are the perfect couple gift. Whether you’re celebrating an anniversary or looking for a wedding gift, the recipient will love these socks!”

Buy this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#21 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs Print

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This next Mrs and Mrs gift idea is part of a pretty fun wedding trend – creating a print or poster of the night sky on the day of their wedding. I love that this wedding print specifically advertises itself for “Mrs and Mrs.”

If one of the brides or people getting married doesn’t wear dresses, I would probs scroll on down to find a different beautiful and fun wedding gift!

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#22 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Matching Luggage Tags from Amazon

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

Okayyyyy so I don’t think this next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift was actually designed for two lesbian or LGBTQ+ brides, but WHATEVER! We’re going to roll with it! If more brides present or identify as more feminine, this could be a fun matching-yet-different thoughtful wedding gift!

Snag this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#23 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Throw Pillow Customizable

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

How sweet and thoughtful is this next Mrs and Mrs wedding gift?! I love how this pillow could fit in with a variety of aesthetics, and the little rainbow heart is so dang cute!!!

I think this is the perfect same sex or lesbian wedding gift for a couple that is building a new home together, especially folks who are moving into a new place after their wedding. <3

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#24 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Customizable Lesbian Print

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Ok, I love LOVEEE the design and typography of this next Mrs and Mrs print, BUUUUT before you get super excited and run off, I want to point out that the COLORS on this print match the lesbian pride flag.

SO, you’re gonna want to make sure your two brides or lovebirds **identify** as lesbian before snagging this! (Some folks use words like: pansexual, queer, bisexual, etc!)

If you don’t want to ask a bride or two brides yourself, you can always reach out to the Maid of Honor (or Bestie of Honor!) to figure out what the flag situation is!

Buy this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#25 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs Right & Mrs Always Right wine Glasses from Amazon

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

I know I already included Mrs and Mrs stemless wine glasses, BUT these wineglasses come in super fun colors (we love a rainbow), and a little cheeky message. This is a great Mrs and Mrs wedding gift for two brides who can laugh at themselves!

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#26 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Star chart

Up above, I shared a specific Mrs & Mrs wedding gift star chart, buuuut I wanted to share a few other options and aesthetics for other lesbian or same sex brides. Click on the images to be taken to the product page for more info!

  1. Left
  2. Middle
  3. Right

#27 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Two Brides are Better Than One

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Next up on my list of the BEST Mrs and Mrs wedding gifts, I thought that this glass can (yes, a can!) is just so freaking cute! I love the whole “two is better than one” trend that we see in gifts for same sex couples. Please note that this gift comes with ONE glass!

From the maker: “Nothing says I Love You better than a perfect matching cup set. This cup will feature wedding date and color of rose straw topper to your liking.”

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#28 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Personalised Outdoorsy Gay Mugs

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Some gays and lesbians LOVE the outdoors and camping, hiking, etc. This set of mugs is perfect for the couple who loves to drink coffee or hot chocolate by the fire underneath the stars! I also love that it’s customizable!

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#29 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Customizable Engagement Box

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I LOVE this next Mrs and Mrs gift idea, because it’s one of those items you look at and instantly know if it’s a fit for your two brides! This is such a functional wedding gift, pairing mugs (we all need more mugs, don’t argue!) and a personalised ring tray, this is really SUCH a thoughtful gift!

The maker, Happily Chic Designs, is happy (pun unintended) to make additional customizations!

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#30 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Personalised Wall Print

I am such a fan of taking photos of loved ones and turning them into ART! (Ok, photos can be art too… you know what I mean!)

This was another lesbian or Mrs and Mrs gift that I went, “It really depends on the couple’s style and aesthetic…” so I included MULTIPLE to help you choose.

  1. Watercolor
  2. Black and White Line
  3. Color Blocked

To snag your thoughtful wedding gift, click on the images above or use the list! <3

#31 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Wall Art Print

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Ok, I fell in love with this lesbian / queer lady art print, so I *had* to include it. This is perfect for a coupl e where one or both brides loves history, the Victorian era (calling all steampunk nerds), etc etc. Real talk, I’m probably going to buy this for my wall.

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#32 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Lesbian Love Pop Up Card

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Ok, technicallyyyy this isn’t a gift (it’s a card), but it’s the kind of card one would display somewhere, so I’m including it. (I promise to do a listicle of the best LGBT wedding cards soon)!

For the history buffs among us, lavender and purple is the officially unofficial color of lesbians or ladies in romantic love. It’s been used throughout history to signal, hint or symbolize lesbian love. (How cute is that?!) This card really takes “IFYKYK” to the next level with the purple and lavender foliage!

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#33 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Mrs & Mrs Phone Case

Mrs. and Mrs. Wedding Gift

This next Mrs and Mrs gift may be more of a fit as an engagement gift than a wedding gift (the text “the future Mrs. C” makes more sense for fiancés, right?). But this is such a cute wedding gift for two brides, I had to include it!

Shop for this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#34 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Ring Trays

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I searched all over creation for the perfect “Mrs and Mrs” ring tray, and I couldn’t find it! UGH! So, instead I’m sharing these lovely customizable ring trays. You can get both brides names, or go for a “Mrs and Mrs” personalised option. I really did try to find a maker who was actively marketing and supportive of the LGBT community, but I couldn’t find one for 2 brides or a “Mrs and Mrs” wedding gift!

Get this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

#35 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Pennant Flag for Sporty Gays

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

I came across this Mrs and Mrs wedding gift by accident, when I was almost done with the post. I was looking for a pride flag with the words “Just Married” on it (that sounds pretty cute, right?), but then I found this “Mrs and Mrs” pennant flag!

This issuch a great wedding gift for my sporty lesbians and butch babes who adore the sportsball. This gift is so fun! They’re made by The Pennant People on etsy, a star seller shop!

#36 Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift: Gift Set with Steel Champagne Flutes

Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift

Ok, this last Mrs and Mrs wedding gift is a good one (I love gifting a gift set that comes in an easy to wrap BOX), buuut I am just so not a fan of the whole “Love is Love” saying. It feels like something we say to people who are more prejudiced, not something that we would remind eachother of at a wedding?

Maybe I’m splitting hairs!

What made me decide to include this gift in the roundup are the customized STEEL champagne flutes! I have never seen this (or I have and didn’t realize they were specifically made for champagne, ahem), and this is such a great gift for two brides who are having an outdoorsy or outdoors-ish wedding! No need to worry about breaking glass if the champagne flutes are STEEL!

Buy this Mrs and Mrs Wedding Gift Here!

3 Tips for Buying Mrs & Mrs Presents

  1. Make sure the couple USES the terms in the gift (not everyone identifies as a “bride” or wants to use “Mrs”!) You can do this by checking with the couple or with a loved one, like a maid of honor.
  2. Choose a gift that makes you go, “That looks like them!” There are lots of different aesthetics in this post!
  3. Relax! The couple knows you care about THEM and want to celebrate THEM! Gifts are wonderful (I love gifts), but what matters is your authentic support and celebration. <3

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